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The secret state - enabled by Westminster, blue and a red blue tinge

theregister.com/2025/04/14/opi

As this case will rest on two impossible things, 1) that any backdoor can be kept secret and 2) that state cybersecurity guarding it will be perfect, sinking our teeth into that nugget of truth will be tasty.

Which is good. Secret courts have no place in a democracy.

The Register · Official abuse of state security has always been bad, now it's horrifyingBy Rupert Goodwins

True story: I have a sister who's a member of Opus Dei. She also wears a chain cilice around her waist, and I hear tell that she's got the scars to prove it. But while I've always thought that was some kooky-ass shit (to say nothing of bearing 11 single-birth children + several miscarriages), she did at least have the choice to do all of that. (Before anyone asks: no, I really don't believe she was coerced into any of this. I've known her my whole life. She's just like this.) She really could have put the brakes on any part of that, if she wanted to, but she's a seriously dyed-in-the-wool believer who was ecstatic when the founder of Opus Dei was canonized. I'm convinced that giving up the (definitely metaphorical, but maybe also literal) self-flagellation is a choice she has never seriously considered.

These women? No such choices available. Straight up slavery and constant abuse for years.

A lot of liberals will point to The Handmaid's Tale as an example of what they fear may happen in the future. I'm a big believer in the value of fiction and narrative as tools for conveying complex ideas, but it'd really be great if people would get clued in: that's not fiction, and it's not only in some hazy vision of the future. It just doesn't usually happen to middle-class white people.

At any rate, best of luck to the plaintiffs in this case. I really hope they're all able to get whatever support they need.

theguardian.com/global-develop

The Guardian · ‘I became like a slave’: why 43 women are suing the secretive Opus Dei Catholic group in ArgentinaBy Harriet Barber

Former Vancouver teacher, St. George's School school named in claim alleging sex abuse
A retired Catholic school teacher with a record of sexually abusing boys at two Vancouver-area private schools is facing fresh allegations related to his time teaching at St. Georges School for boys almost forty years ago.
#abuse #school #teacher #Vancouver #News #Canada
cbc.ca/news/canada/british-col

Processing #narcissisticAbuse requires you to upheave your entire world. It requires you to recontextualize the entire relationship you had with the person who abused you. It requires looking at things again and realizing that this situation was in fact abusive. That making you feel confusion, hurt, sadness, and especially fear, were not a mistake but the intention.

You need to do all that while grieving the loss of the person you thought you loved. They were never real. And I really mean never. They were a fabrication created by a predator that exploited your psychological weaknesses to devour you like a lion.

This will sound crass to some of you. Many will think I'm exaggerating. But those of you who survived narcissistic abuse know: what I wrote doesn't even come close to capturing the horror of realizing that the person you loved never loved you back but instead only sought to dominate and exploit you as a source of narcissistic supply.

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Imagine giving your child a whole bunch of substances, without knowing, how each affects them individually, how sensitive they are to that substance, how those substances might interact and who may be unable to articulate how they are/feel affected and who can't refuse.

This is a form of abuse and people would care much more about it, if "normal human" children would be affected, instead of disabled "defective objects".

5/5

“Autistic Inclusive Meets: the grassroots group fighting Autistic abuse while uplifting the community”

by Hannah Sharland in The Canary @thecanaryuk

“Autistic Inclusive Meets (AIM) has campaigned for years for a new law to make claiming a treatment or intervention as an autism ‘cure’, illegal”

thecanary.co/long-read/2025/04

Canary · Autistic Inclusive Meets: the grassroots group fighting Autistic abuse while uplifting the communityAutistic Inclusive Meets (AIM) is a grassroots community group that’s been taking on the ‘cure culture’ around neurodivergence
#Press#UK#AIM
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But for my former friend, she just thought that I was overreacting and that I was just low in confidence and testosterone.

She even set me up with one of her girlfriends while I was fighting #GroupParanoia, #demoralization, withstanding #mental #abuse while trying to save a business from going under.

Being in an #abusive cycle is what I'd call a mojo killer though, but it didn't matter. She viewed the whole situation as a "boys will be boys" situation, and that I just buckled from stress.