Dusk To Don :raccoon:<p>Hi, All!</p><p>I wonder if you would be willing to share any insights or experiences you might have navigating the following (boosts appreciated)</p><p>1. <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/Codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Codependence</span></a> / enmeshment within a romantic partnership and the resulting loss of self / self knowledge / being in touch with your own desires</p><p>2. Navigating partnership in which one person is dealing with chronic <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a><br> </p><p>Thanks!<br><a href="https://todon.eu/tags/askFedi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>askFedi</span></a></p>
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Knut 🏳️🌈 🇳🇴🧸<p>Kinda hard to believe that my <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/family" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>family</span></a> tried flinging me off like a booger and crucified me, but yet, here I am. Looking hot, doing better, going forward. You can't kill me. I'm immortal. And the harder you try, the stronger I become. Being ME. Once you escape <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a>, it is....<a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/freedom" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>freedom</span></a>!!! It's hard. I'm on probation because I was desperate. But once it happens, it's so wonderful. The gods will provide! <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/ptsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ptsd</span></a></p>
trndgtr.com<p>The Silver Lining | Whitney Cummings & Chris Williamson</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/philosophy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>philosophy</span></a></p>
trndgtr.com<p>The 3 P's | Whitney Cummings </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/socialscience" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>socialscience</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a></p>
Caterine Vauban<p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/20books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>20books</span></a> № 13: OKAY FINE I've only seen the film BUT I think about it enough to include the <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/book" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>book</span></a> here also what are you the 20books police get a life far out</p><p><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17605621-behind-the-candelabra" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">goodreads.com/book/show/176056</span><span class="invisible">21-behind-the-candelabra</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Liberace" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Liberace</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>narcissism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/enmeshment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>enmeshment</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PsychologicalAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PsychologicalAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/autobiography" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autobiography</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/biopic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>biopic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>books</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TrueStory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TrueStory</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfObject" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfObject</span></a></p>
Cassian [main]<p>Can anyone recommend any books on <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/codependency" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependency</span></a> / <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a> that don't mention the 12 Steps, God, or a higher power?</p><p>It doesn't feel like it should be a big ask, but every list I can find has this one book at the top that opens with a Bible quote... :D</p>
Alexander Portnoy 🌊 🏳️🌈<p>This afternoon, I have been researching <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a>, <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/domesticviolence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>domesticviolence</span></a>, <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/substanceabuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>substanceabuse</span></a>, and what constitutes stalking in the state of California. My heart is completely shattered.I have also been looking into <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/burnerphones" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>burnerphones</span></a>.</p><p>I can also include <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/homophobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>homophobia</span></a>, <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/bankruptcy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bankruptcy</span></a> and <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/borderlinepersonalitydisorder" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>borderlinepersonalitydisorder</span></a>, but I am trying to keep things simple right now.</p>
spmatich vk3spm :blobcoffee:<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://geeknews.chat/@theregister" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>theregister</span></a></span> how many <a href="https://ioc.exchange/tags/Australian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Australian</span></a> <a href="https://ioc.exchange/tags/journalists" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>journalists</span></a> is that going to give cause to finally leave <a href="https://ioc.exchange/tags/X" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>X</span></a>? I predict Zero. Everybody knows <a href="https://ioc.exchange/tags/birdsite" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>birdsite</span></a> is crap. <a href="https://ioc.exchange/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a></p>
AngrySexagenarian<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://infosec.exchange/@Em0nM4stodon" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>Em0nM4stodon</span></a></span> <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/Codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Codependence</span></a></p>
Steve Dustcircle 🌹<p>Is <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Marriage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Marriage</span></a> Worth It?<br>Can long-term <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/do" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>do</span></a> more harm than good? Where is the line between <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/intimacy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>intimacy</span></a> and <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a>?</p><p><a href="https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5zaW1wbGVjYXN0LmNvbS9kZmhfdmVyVg/episode/YmE0MzUwZjgtMzFiYS00MjdkLWI0ZmUtYTVmZGUxNGY1M2Fl?sa=X&ved=0CKkCEM-BB2oXChMImMin0obQggMVAAAAAB0AAAAAEAE" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0c</span><span class="invisible">HM6Ly9mZWVkcy5zaW1wbGVjYXN0LmNvbS9kZmhfdmVyVg/episode/YmE0MzUwZjgtMzFiYS00MjdkLWI0ZmUtYTVmZGUxNGY1M2Fl?sa=X&ved=0CKkCEM-BB2oXChMImMin0obQggMVAAAAAB0AAAAAEAE</span></a></p>
KatLS<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://nerdculture.de/@moondog548" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>moondog548</span></a></span> I do feel like patriarchy cripples men. Instead of addressing issues with creativity and intelligence they are give brute force as a solution to everything and here we are.😖<br>Man has big feelings- must hit something. Boys will be boys- which translates men will be boys… their tools for maturity are stunted and often stuck in perpetual juvenility. Many women are brought up in <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a> with this dysfunction. Things are changing….thankfully 🙏.</p>
Ricardo Harvin<p>Sorry, this is paywalled content.</p><p>This describes both of my <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/EggshellParents" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>EggshellParents</span></a> and my childhood, along with <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/alcoholism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>alcoholism</span></a> (dad) and <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a> (mom, me).</p><p>I barely made it out alive, and didn't escape its destructive effects until my <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/marriage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>marriage</span></a> blew up and brought everything I'd repressed to a roiling boil.</p><p><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/AdultChildrenOfAlcoholicsAndDysfunctionalFamilies" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AdultChildrenOfAlcoholicsAndDysfunctionalFamilies</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/ACA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ACA</span></a> saved my life in 2012 <a href="https://adultchildren.org/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">adultchildren.org/</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.stylist.co.uk/relationships/family-friends/eggshell-parents/789578" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">stylist.co.uk/relationships/fa</span><span class="invisible">mily-friends/eggshell-parents/789578</span></a></p><p><a href="https://apple.news/AE3NOPEQESbaK6M_ajthsiA" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">apple.news/AE3NOPEQESbaK6M_ajt</span><span class="invisible">hsiA</span></a></p>
Alexander Karn<p>PSA: Never attempt face-to-face breakup with <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/AI" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AI</span></a> chatbot. <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Bing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Bing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Microsoft" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Microsoft</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Codependence</span></a></p>
Enjoy<p>Dr. Stan <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Tatkin" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Tatkin</span></a>: “The purpose of a relationship is fundamentally grounded in safety and security: not love, not attraction, not romance. If you’re not providing that need to ensure each other’s sense of <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/safety" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>safety</span></a> and <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/security" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>security</span></a>, it defies the whole psychobiological purpose of being with another person.”<br />⸺<br /><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/quotes" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>quotes</span></a> 🫡<a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/assertive" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>assertive</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/positive" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>positive</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/self" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>self</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/selfStudy" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>selfStudy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/learning" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>learning</span></a> ❤️<a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/learn" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>learn</span></a> 🌱<a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/joy" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>joy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/disappoint" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>disappoint</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/couple" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>couple</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/intimate" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>intimate</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/relationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>relationship</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>relationships</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/friendship" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>friendship</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/support" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>support</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/empathy" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>empathy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/protection" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>protection</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>codependence</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/concern" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>concern</span></a></p>
Enjoy<p>“Not <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/forgiving" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>forgiving</span></a> is like drinking rat poison and then waiting for the rat to die.”<br />― Anne <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Lamott" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Lamott</span></a>, in "Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Faith" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Faith</span></a>" <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/forgiveness" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>forgiveness</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/grudges" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>grudges</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/revenge" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>revenge</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/spite" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>spite</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/people" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>people</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/relationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>relationship</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>codependence</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/addiction" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>addiction</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/simpleEnglish" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>simpleEnglish</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/mentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>mentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/quotes" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>quotes</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/resentment" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>resentment</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/bitterness" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>bitterness</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/mentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>mentalHealth</span></a></p>
Enjoy<p>Anne <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Lamott" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Lamott</span></a>: “We can’t arrange peace or lasting improvement for the people we love most in the world. […] Help is the sunny side of <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/control" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>control</span></a>. Stop helping so much. Don’t get your help and <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/goodness" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>goodness</span></a> all over everybody.”<br /><a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/anne_lamott_12_truths_i_learned_from_life_and_writing/transcript?language=en&subtitle=en" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">ted.com/talks/anne_lamott_12_t</span><span class="invisible">ruths_i_learned_from_life_and_writing/transcript?language=en&subtitle=en</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/people" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>people</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>relationships</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/friendship" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>friendship</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/support" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>support</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/empathy" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>empathy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/protection" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>protection</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>codependence</span></a> 🐻<a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/benevolence" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>benevolence</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/kindness" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>kindness</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/addiction" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>addiction</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/simpleEnglish" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>simpleEnglish</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/mentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>mentalHealth</span></a></p>
Shrink4Men<p>Reading <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/relationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationship</span></a> books written for “<a href="https://lor.sh/tags/normals" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>normals</span></a>” when your partner <br>has a <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/ClusterB" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ClusterB</span></a> <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/PersonalityDisorder" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PersonalityDisorder</span></a> is like reading a how to build a birdhouse<br> manual in order to learn how to swim safely with sharks. </p><p>In other words, it's not going to help.</p><p>A relationship with a <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>narcissist</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/borderline" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>borderline</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/histrionic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>histrionic</span></a> or Cluster B variety pack isn't dysfunctional and toxic due to the issues non-disordered people have in relationships. The problems aren't due to deficient <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/CommunicationSkills" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CommunicationSkills</span></a>. Nor is because you don't "speak their <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/LoveLanguage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LoveLanguage</span></a>." And it isn't because you're from Mars/Venus and they're from Uranus -- or whatever not take <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/responsibility" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>responsibility</span></a>-<a href="https://lor.sh/tags/BlameShifting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BlameShifting</span></a>-<a href="https://lor.sh/tags/DARVO" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DARVO</span></a> bullshit excuse they concoct.</p><p>It's because they have an un/diagnosed personality disorder. Their love language is Crazy. They lack the fundamental emotional and psychological capacity to have a healthy and reciprocal emotionally mature relationship built upon mutual respect and empathy.</p><p>Furthermore, being more empathic, patient and "loving them harder" isn't going to help you either. That advice results in more <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/enabling" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>enabling</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependence</span></a> and <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/TraumaBonding" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TraumaBonding</span></a> -- not more love. </p><p>Again, the real issues are the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/NPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NPD</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/BPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BPD</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/HPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HPD</span></a> character pathology, which can't be fixed. And your <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/codependency" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>codependency</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/peoplepleasing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>peoplepleasing</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/traumahealing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>traumahealing</span></a>, etc., which you can work on.</p><p>If you want to learn how to have healthier relationships, read about how to best protect yourself from emotionally manipulative liars/predators and how to address your codependency and family of origin issues because nothing else is going to work.</p><p><a href="https://lor.sh/tags/AbuseHasNoGender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseHasNoGender</span></a> <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/TheMoreYouKnow" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TheMoreYouKnow</span></a></p>
HandgunYoga (he/him/his)<p><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/introduction" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>introduction</span></a>, cont’d</p><p>My <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Spiritual" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Spiritual</span></a> path has included <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Addiction" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Addiction</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Codependence</span></a>, and <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Recovery" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Recovery</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Depression" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Depression</span></a> and thoughts of <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Suicide" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Suicide</span></a>, luckily punctuated my <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/OOBE" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>OOBE</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/OutOfBodyExperiences" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>OutOfBodyExperiences</span></a> proving to me anyway <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/AstralTravel" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>AstralTravel</span></a> is real.</p><p>I’ve practiced <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Channeling" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Channeling</span></a>, am a <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/ReikiMaster" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>ReikiMaster</span></a>-Teacher able to Initiate others, former volunteer w <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/DistantHealingNetwork" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>DistantHealingNetwork</span></a></p><p>I’ve been a moderator for <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/SelfInjury" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>SelfInjury</span></a> support groups, made a lot of friends diagnosed <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/DID" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>DID</span></a> and suspect I’m <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Multiple" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Multiple</span></a> too.</p>
wetiko<p>Co-Dependence Anonymous: Recovery Patterns of <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/Codependence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Codependence</span></a> [pdf]</p><p><a href="https://coda.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/2011-Patterns-of-Recovery-2015.pdf" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">coda.org/wp-content/uploads/20</span><span class="invisible">18/09/2011-Patterns-of-Recovery-2015.pdf</span></a></p>
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