Shrink4Men<p><a href="https://lor.sh/tags/Narcissists" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissists</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/borderlines" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>borderlines</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/histrionics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>histrionics</span></a> and the rest of the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/ClusterB" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ClusterB</span></a> variety pack can be quite the historical revisionists. Yes, they're <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/PathologicalLiars" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PathologicalLiars</span></a> in matters consequential and inconsequential. When they rewrite history, however, they almost uniformly transform themselves into innocent, rosy-smelling victims and portray their actual victims as villains.</p><p>Typically, they do this via a combination of <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/gaslighting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gaslighting</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/projection" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>projection</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/DARVO" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DARVO</span></a>, blatant lies, half-truths, distortions and reality TV quality acting. Even when the facts eventually come to light, they shamelessly deny, lie, cry, tantrum and obfuscate with <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/WordSalad" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WordSalad</span></a>.</p><p>While I understand this phenomenon in terms of their characterological pathology, I never cease to be amazed by their refusal to take <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/accountability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>accountability</span></a> especially once they’re fully exposed.</p><p>You've got video, audio or emails that prove the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>narcissist</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/borderline" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>borderline</span></a> or <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/histrionic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>histrionic</span></a> partner’s or ex's lies and abuses? Spplffft! It doesn’t matter as far as the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/NPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NPD</span></a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/BPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BPD</span></a> or <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/HPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HPD</span></a> is concerned. They just tell more lies and play victim harder.</p><p>What they said or did last week, yesterday or two minutes ago is meaningless. They shake their Magic Victim 8 Ball and poof! It's time for freshly excreted self-serving lies. </p><p>They cry, pitch a tantrum, rage, pout and blithely ignore being fact-checked. They brazenly insist on their newest lies, distortions and false narratives and continue to deny, lie, gaslight and contradict themselves and anyone willing to listen to ever growing mountain of manure.</p><p>Then, when you point out the most recent pile of steaming, blatant BS, they're the victim and you're the asshole. </p><p>Narcissists, histrionics, psychopaths and borderlines don't see their cruelty, self-absorption, pathological lying and entitlement as bad. You deserve it. You make them do it. For that matter, anyone who holds them accountable is a bad, nasty person who's abusing them/victimizing them. It's completely backasswards.</p><p>Again, this is pure BS. The bad behavior is bad, not pointing out the bad behavior.</p><p><a href="https://lor.sh/tags/AbuseHasNoGender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseHasNoGender</span></a></p>