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When was the last time your mind was satisfied enough by its own activity, that it stopped and came to rest in its natural state of peaceful awareness all by itself?

Perhaps the best way to answer this question is simply to allow it to relax into its natural state here and now, instead of with more activity trying to think or remember the last time.

Then your answer to this question, no matter when it is asked, will always be the same...: Now.

I disagree with quite a few points, but overall I think I understand and feel most of it.

I try not to be a troll. I agree that people tend to be kinder to to each other and ourselves when we're not in physical, emotional, or existential pain. However, surgery involves additional wounds, anaesthetic involves extra liver injury, and social correction involves self-aware discomfort. (And obv evn more if you prolong it to avoid ego pain by reacting defensively.)

All that to say, removed from the context you've given here, to be fair: I think sometimes 'trolling' (strictly as a negative response and deterrent to repeating whatever the trollee thinks caused it) can be productive. Not the extreme stuff, anything restricting non-harmful freedoms, or advocating population control, more like:
"if you look for loopholes to slide around the letter of an agreement to subvert the spirit of the agreement, then your intent is wrong and you need to reflect before you harm others and yourself by cutting yourself off from the consequences of your actions."

An example could be nuisance DDoS attack on organisations that push for restricting healthcare from certain demographics.
Another might be a punch to someone openly avowing neo-nazi views: not death, but immediate response that other people's lives are more important than allowing rampant hate speech for the sake of looking "impartial". I'm impartial af to people being allowed to live their best or more fulfilled lives as far as not harming others.
But sometimes, people are so deep in their pain that they assume there is no hope out or they dig their heels in and refuse to acknowledge that they could be wrong, change, or be worth anything (much less exactly the same as anyone else).

Generally, yes: do no harm. Step lightly, reduce risk and mitigate harm where it's unavoidable. However, I'm against "turn the other cheek". Yet, there is always, always nuance. "Everything in moderation, including moderation."

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I didn't know what non-dualism was until I just looked it up. I read a book on tdaoism in high school that might have mentioned it but I probably forgot because yay horrifically stressful life.

People have described to me a different definition of 'shit-posting', but it's possible they were being ironic and I missed it without the original context, or the meaning drifted with time and change in usage. In any case, I know it more as "being intentionally obtuse to provoke a response"'. That's also pretty similar to my definition of art: any piece of media or multimedia created with the intent or retrospectively (retroactively?) considered to resonate emotions in the people engaging with it.

And neither of those are necessarily *only* negative, either. Or always intentional, or limited, etc.
But there are as many definitions for things as there are people who use the term.

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I don't think it's possible to say "what the Buddha meant by that was..." unless you were in their head, to nitpick.

And finally, if profit incentives and hierarchical thinking continue, then of course tech will continue hostile design.

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Anger is NOT solely negative. Transformative, yes, and can be destructive to people or an idea, but there is no growth while staying exactly the same. *Something* is removed, with some amount of force.
Or as I read it somewhere, "anger is your body telling you your boundaries have been crossed". And what is a boundary if not an extension of your needs?

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I dig the vibes, overall.
I'm not spiritual or religious. I am angry because I want everyone (*every*one) to have the opportunities I had and didn't have.
If there is an afterlife, I don't want it. I want the inarguable rest of nothingness, and have done since I was a child. (Yaaaay childhood trauma from selfish adults refusing or being unable to access therapy!)

You've impelled a lot of thoughts out of me with this.

youtube.com/watch?v=HKuAmp0kbe

"All you need are these: certainty of judgment in the present moment; action for the common good in the present moment; and an attitude of gratitude in the present moment for anything that comes your way."

- Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 9.6

The commonality being "in the present moment". We don't need to cultivate these these three... we only need to return to the present moment and we always find them.

Recommitting myself to daily #meditation practice which was neglected over much of the summer, I'm reminded of this song.

It encapsulates my feelings around the attempt to experience the present from a #nondual perspective, dispensing with worries of the past and future.

It's a massive challenge to overcome a lifetime of conditioning concerning the very nature of reality, you know?

youtube.com/watch?v=hGNDYgyaB4

Having found myself over-conceptualizing the nondual again lately, I wrote a somewhat lofty post to remind me of the subtle trap in this.

While the post is indeed conceptual, its my favorite kind of concept - the one that helps free me from them 😜.

I'm getting back to focusing on the peace and equanimity of nondualism through the experience and embodiment of it rather than the "idea".

vijayprema.com/end-game-non-du

Vijay Prema - The Mindful TechnologistEndgame non-dual non-attachmentFor the non-duelist looking to take things to their own end...

I often write articles that I myself want to re-read frequently.

Today I wrote a collection of short pointers and exercises for those interested in meditation, finding mental peace/clarity and non-dualism.

I intend to keep updating this page in future (and perhaps write a book about it eventually... stay tuned).

I hope it helps you find peace as much as it helps me 🙏

vijayprema.com/spiritual-point

Vijay Prema - The Mindful TechnologistPointers to Mind-silence Beyond ConceptsShort non-dual spiritual pointers and exercises to bring the mind to immediate clarity and peace.

Time for another .
Hoping with practice I’ll feel less awkward.

American living near Kentucky, home of . Grew up there when Dad was Colonel Sander’s head of and , Dad helped launch the first wave of Ky Fried Chicken stores in the UK and .

I’ve practiced for 40 years, heavily influenced by , , , and .

There’s a good chance I’m .

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Tao Te Ching
Stephen Mitchell translation

Ch. 13 1/2

Success is as dangerous
as failure.

Hope is as hollow as fear.

What does it mean that success is a dangerous as failure?

Whether you go up the ladder or down it, your position is shaky.

When you stand with your two feet on the ground, you will always keep your balance.

What does it mean that hope is as hollow as fear?

Hope and fear are both phantoms that arise from thinking of the self.

When we don’t see the self as self, what do we have to fear?

See the world as your self.

Have faith in the way things are.

Love the world as your self;
then you can care for all things.

1 & 2

#TTC#Tao#Taoism

“Now, here’s the problem, you see, that there are certain processes whereby one comes to see very clearly indeed that black goes with white and self goes with other. And as this becomes clear to you, it’s rather shaking. Because, look, if what you define as you is inseparable from everything - what you define as not you - just as front is inseparable from back, then you realize that deep down between self and other, there is some sort of conspiracy.”